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Congregation Shomrei
Torah
PACHIM K'TANIM (SMALL THINGS) FROM
RABBI YUDIN
Mishpatim/ Shekalim - February 21, 2004
Some poskim rule that one is forbidden to make a necktie on Shabbos because
of the question of koshair. However, many of the foremost authorities permit
making a necktie on Shabbos if one usually unties it after wearing it. However,
if one usually leaves the tie intact after each use, making the tie initially on
Shabbos is more problematic.
Terumah - February 28, 2004
Among the 39 Melachos of Shabbos are Tofair - sewing and Koriya - tearing. To
some authorities the removal of labels and dry cleaning tags constitutes a
Rabbinic violation of Koraya. It is therefore most preferable to remove all tags
and labels prior to Shabbos. If one forgot, they should carefully open the
staple and try to avoid any tearing in the process.
Tetzaveh/ Zachor - March 06, 2004
If one leaves Mishloach Manot on the doorstep only to be found after
nightfall, one has not satisfied the mitzvah. To the Terumos Hadeshen the
mitzvah is to ensure that all have food for the Purim seudah and the seudah is
to begin by day. To Rav Shlomo Alkebitz (author of Lecha Dodi) the reason for
Mishloach Manot is to spread friendship and camaraderie on Purim.
Ki Tissa/ Parah - March 13, 2004
In honor of the Kiyor in this week's Parshah - the best time to recite the
blessing "Al Netilas Yadayim" is after washing the hands but prior to drying
them, as the drying is as integral part of the mitzvah, and thus the blessing is
being recited "Oiver La'asiyasan" which means prior to the performance of a
mitzvah. One is not permitted to speak between the washing and drying of the
hands and the blessing of "Al Netilas Yadayim". (For further discussion: Why is
the mitzvah of Netilas Yadayim different in that the blessing is not recited
before the washing?)
Vayekhel-Pikudei / Parshas HaChodesh - March
20, 2004
It is forbidden on Shabbos for an individual to ask or hint to a non-Jew to
do for them what they cannot do for themselves on Shabbos. For example, to turn
on a light. Moreover, even if the non-Jew initiated the gesture, turned on the
light for an individual, so they could read or even study Torah, the Jew may not
utilize that light. If, however, a light on in the bedroom is preventing one
from sleeping, one may then hint to the non-Jew and they can turn off the light,
as this is considered an indirect benefit
Vayikra - March 27, 2004
It is most preferable not to invite a non-Jew to the Pesach Seder for two
reasons. The halacha says one can cook on Yom Tov for a Jew but not for a
non-Jew. Therefore, you can have a non-Jew at your Shabbos table, but you cannot
have a non-Jew at any Yom Tov meal, not just the Seder lest you cook for him. In
addition, at the Seder it might be uncomfortable for both Jew and non-Jew as we
discuss anti-Semitism throughout history.
Tzav/ Shabbat HaGadol - April 03, 2004
The halacha of Ba'al Yira'eh and Ba'al Yimatzeh requires that we rid and
eliminate chametz from our homes and our possession. With regard to garbage
containing chametz that is still in our possession going into Pesach (not yet
picked up by the Sanitation Department) we recite the formula for Bitul chametz
(Kol Chamirah)- nullification of the chametz, but since it is still in our
physical possession we must render it unfit for consumption by pouring ammonia
or bleach over it, rendering it inedible.
Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach - April 10, 2004
In contrast to our learning (two weeks ago) of the prohibition of a non-Jew
performing a prohibited action- melachah for an individual on Shabbos, a non-Jew
may be asked directly to do a melacha if it is a mitzvah d'rabbim, a mitzvah for
the community. A non-Jew may be told to fix the Eruv if it came down on Shabbos
and to turn the lights on in the synagogue enabling the congregation to pray or
study Torah.
Shemini - April 17, 2004
There are two opinions regarding when the halachic day ends either Plag
HaMincha- 1 hours before sunset or nightfall. If one is performing the
mitzvah of Tosefes Shabbos; accepting the Shabbos while it is still Friday, he
should daven Mincha- prayer of the weekday before Plag, while it is still Friday
and the Shabbos prayer after Plag, which can be considered Shabbos. One must be
careful not to light the Shabbos candles until after Plag HaMincha, hence the
wording in our own bulletin "candle lighting not before".
Tazria - Metzora- April 24, 2004
Regarding Lashon Harah: it is not only forbidden to speak ill of others, but
it is also forbidden to believe as a complete truth that which is spoken of
others even if the information comes from a credible source. Instead one
should try to judge favorably or assume he is not being given the complete
picture.
Acharei - Kedoshim- May 01, 2004
The practice of standing for the chasson and kallah as they are being
escorted down the aisle is to be understood in the following way: We stand
during Vayevarech Dovid- as opposed to the earlier Pisukei D'Zimra- as the
Gabbai Tzedakah would collect then and we stand before he who is facilitating a
mitzvah. Similarly, we stand before the parents who are bringing their child to
the mitzvah of marriage. In keeping with Parshas Kedoshim (19:32); a reminder to
stand for grandparents during the wedding procession: "Rise for the elderly."
Emor - May 08, 2004
The restrictions of haircuts and weddings during the Omer is observed by
most for 33 days. The M'Chaber rules that these restrictions commence with the
counting of the Omer and end on Lag BaOmer. To the Rama they begin on the 2nd
day of Rosh Chodesh Iyar and continue until 3 days prior to Shavuos. All agree
that the restrictions are lifted for the day of Lag BaOmer. Even those that
continue their observance after Lag BaOmer, may attend weddings during this
time, as the mitzvah of participating in the joy of a wedding overrides the
restrictions.
Behar- Bechukotai - May 15, 2004
It is permissible to put ice cubes into a drink to cool the liquid, even
though the ice will definitely melt. Making ice cubes on Shabbos for Shabbos is
permitted by Rabbi S.Z. Auerbach zt"l and Rabbi M.Feinstein zt'l in cases of
necessity, ie: a simcha, to serve guests. To make ice for after Shabbos is
prohibited. Please note: Many refrigerators with automatic ice cube dispensers
have a sensing arm or lever which may activate an electric circuit as one
removes ice cubes from the bin. This is to be disconnected (or lifted up) before
Shabbos.
Bamidbar - May 22, 2004
Mail order catalogs, such as "Sears", are they muktzah? May we look up an
address in a phone book on Shabbos? Why? Is the phone book muktzah? What else
might it be used for? May we read a letter that arrives on Shabbos if it is not
in a sealed envelope? Can you move the candlesticks after the candles have gone
out? Can you move the table upon which the candlesticks stand? Why? Is a dog
muktzah? The answers to these and many more questions that you never thought to
ask will be studied with the Rabbi Shavuos night.
Naso - May 29, 2004
Catalogs presenting the sale of merchandise or services, such as "Sears"
catalogs are classified as Kli SheMilachto L'Esur, utensils of prohibited usage,
which means they are muktzah and may be moved only if you need the place where
it is located or to use it as a booster seat for a child. This includes
department store catalogs, jewelry and gift catalogs, furniture and auto parts,
appliance and stereo catalogs. They are muktzah as their primary function
(purpose) is to promote the sale of merchandise. Even if one is sure that he
will not purchase or order, they are still muktzah.
Behaalotcha - June 05, 2004
Rabbi Yitzchak (Bava Basra 9B) teaches, whoever gives charity (even a modest
contribution) is blessed with 6 Heavenly blessings. The one who comforts the
needy with words in a situation where he has no money to give, is blessed with
11 Divine blessings. The comforter is more richly blessed than the donor, for
the former gives more of himself- which is a greater act of tzedakah, while the
donor gives of his resources. Think of the privilege you have next time to do
both.
Shelach - June 12, 2004
If one set their Shabbos clock to turn on an air conditioner and now wishes
it not to go on, they may not remove the plug directly with their hand as this
is Tiltul Muktzah- moving Muktzah directly and prohibited. However, they may
remove the plug by using an unusual way "Kilachar Yad", such as one's elbows.
Korach - June 19, 2004
One of the 39 prohibitions on Shabbos is Melabain; or laundering. It
includes garments, leather shoes and even non garments, such as carpets. One
violates Melabain even if the stain is not completely removed. Thus, one may not
place some water or seltzer on a stain on a garment or on the carpet on Shabbos.
One may not even dab water on a wine stain to dilute the stain as that too is
considered an improvement to the garment or carpet.
Chukkat - June 26, 2004
Combing or brushing hair on Shabbos is part of the Melacha of Gozez-
shearing because the act of combing or brushing will inevitably pull out hair (
Problem of P'sik Reisha). There are three conditions that must be met to permit
brushing of hair. Firstly, the use of a soft brush (preferably a baby brush or a
pig hair brush) as opposed to a stiff brush whose bristles are firm. Secondly,
the brushing should be gentle, not close to the scalp. Finally, the brush is to
be designated as a Shabbos brush only.
Balak - July 03, 2004
This Tuesday, July 6th, is the fast of Shiva-Asar B'Tammuz. There is a
machlokes between the M'Chaber, Rabbi Yosef Caro (Sephardic practice) who
permits one who is cooking to taste the food and then spit it out, except on Yom
Kippur and Tisha B'Av, and the Rama (Ashkenazic practice) who prohibits this on
all fast days. One can however, brush their teeth, rinse with mouthwash and
allow breath freshener oral care strips to melt on one's tongue, as none of the
above constitute food.
Pinchas - July 10, 2004
New clothing that does not require the bracha Shehecheyanu (shoes,
underwear, casual clothes) may be bought or worn for the first time until Rosh
Chodesh Av (Monday July 19). Clothing that does require this bracha may not be
bought in the Three Weeks. However, new clothing may be worn and a bracha
recited (according to most authorities) on a Shabbos until Rosh Chodesh Av.
Matot - Masei - July 17, 2004
It is permitted to use aerosol spray dispensers such as deodorants,
hair-spray and room fresheners on Shabbos. One may not use a roll-on deodorant
on Shabbos as it is a violation of M'Marayach, a Toladah sub-division of
Memachek- smoothing. One who perspires heavily may use deodorant on Tisha B'Av.
Devarim/ Shabbat Chazon - July 24, 2004
This Motzei Shabbos the wine or grape juice for havdalah should be drunk by
a child, preferably between the ages of 8-10 years of age. If no child is
available the one making havdalah should drink. v To create a halachic pause
between the first meal (supper) and the second meal (Seudah HaMafsekes- meal of
bread, hard-boiled egg and ashes) before the fast there will be a minyan for
Mincha at 7:15pm. There will also be the usual minyan B'Zman at 8:05pm. w
Mouthwash, breath freshener strips and brushing of teeth are all prohibited on
Tisha B'Av.
Vaetchanan/ Nachamu - July 31, 2004
The Rabbis instituted the recitation of Shma- prior to going to sleep. From
the letter of the law only the first paragraph of Shma need be recited, but the
Mishna Brura recommends the recitation of all three paragraphs for greater
"protection" during the night. The bracha of Ha-Mapil is said prior to going to
sleep and it is said but once a night. (If one was awakened during the night
even for long periods of time, the bracha of Ha-Mapil is not repeated.) The Shma
may be recited lying on one's side- it is not to be said flat on one's back.
Eikev - August 7, 2004
From the letter of the law, Birkas Hamazon- with 3 or more men does not
require a cup of wine. However, it is most preferable to recite Birkas Hamazon
over a cup of wine (especially on Shabbos and Yom Tov). The wine cup prior to
its use, for both Kiddush and Birkas Hamazon, is to be rinsed, both within and
out, even if it is clean.
Re'eh - August 14, 2004
The manner in which one gives tzedaka is often more significant than the
actual giving. Giving tzedaka begrudgingly, though a generous donation,
significantly diminishes one's reward of the mitzvah. Often when meshulachim
come to our door at inconvenient times (and our children are watching our
response) it's not only what you give- but your warmth and encouraging words
that are the primary mitzvah.
Shoftim - August 21, 2004
Sheva Brachos may be recited at a meal in any place as long as the meal was
prepared specifically for the bride and groom. Sheva Brachos cannot be recited
if the bride and groom go to a restaurant for a private meal. However, if a meal
in a restaurant has been prearranged for the bride and groom, then Sheva Brachos
may be recited. Sheva Brachos need be recited only once for several couples in
attendance at the same meal.
Ki Teitzeh - August 28, 2004
When 3 or more men who have washed eat together, they are obligated to
bensch with a zimun. At the wedding meal and during the week of Sheva Brachos,
this washing and eating together obligates them to stay for Sheva Brachos.
However, one may leave before Sheva Brachos if they have a valid reason and
washed with this condition in mind.
Ki Tavo - September 04, 2004
At the beginning and end of the Shemonah Esrei one steps back and forth 3
times. When stepping back one starts with the left leg, and when stepping
forward one starts with the right foot, in order to show that when one enters
the presence of Hashem they do so with their primary right leg, and when leaving
His presence they use their secondary left foot. How important are the steps one
takes in life.
Nitzavim- Vayeilech - September 11, 2004
An individual hearing the shofar at home should preferably stand. It is best
if the listener recites the 2 blessings prior to the blowing of the shofar. One
should hear at home 3 Tashrat (Tkiah,Shevorim,Teruah,Tkiah) 3 Tashat
(Tkiah,Shevorim,Tkiah) 3 Tarat (Tkiah,Teruah,Tkiah) for a total of 30 sounds.
Haazinu- Shabbat Shuva - September 18, 2004
As on the airplane where the instruction is to place your oxygen mask on
first, and then assist the next one, similarly it is preferable to perform
Kaporos with the chicken or money for yourself first and then for your loved
ones. v One is obligated to ask for forgiveness or attempt to assuage the anger
of their fellow Jew, even if they are the one that feels wronged. Shver Tzu Zayn
A Yid! (It is difficult to be a Jew!)
Yom Kippur - September 25, 2004
Rav Sadia Gaon was a guest at an inn, and was treated respectfully by the
innkeeper. As he was about to leave, the innkeeper became aware of the identity
of his guest and begged forgiveness of the sage for not having extended
sufficient respect. Said the Rabbi, "You treated me well." "But," answered the
host,"had I only known who you are I would have extended myself much more." From
then on the Rabbi would say to himself: "How much should I learn from the
innkeeper! If only I would realize that I am hosting the King of Kings, I would
have treated Him with even greater respect."
Shabbat Chol HaMoed Succot - October 2, 2004
The Halacha is that each meal containing grain products (ie: bread, cereal,
pasta) requires a separate bracha of Leishev B'Succah provided the individual
has left the succah. If one remains in the succah between breakfast and lunch
and then again between lunch and supper (even if he goes out for a moment to
wash his hands) the first blessing will suffice for the whole day. Going to shul
to daven Mincha does constitute an interruption if it is between meals. If one
interrupts his meal to daven, with the intention of returning and continuing his
meal, he does not repeat Leishev B'Succah. Do not bring the garbage pail into
the succah, rather bring the garbage out to the pail.
Bereishis - October 9, 2004
We recite the blessing over fire on Saturday night as part of Havdalah as
that is when G-d inspired man to create fire. The practice is to examine one's
fingernails in order to get benefit from the Havdalah light. The Mishnah Berurah
is of the opinion that one should inspect one's fingernails before reciting the
bracha. (He considers this bracha one of Shevach, similar to the blessing of
lightning, recited after one sees the lightning.) Rav Moshe Feinstein zt"l ruled
that the inspection follows the blessing, as he understood it to be a blessing
of Nehenin- blessing recited before pleasure like food and drink. We all look-
now you know what you do- and why!
Noach - October 16, 2004
It is prohibited to use an umbrella on Shabbos or Yom Tov to protect oneself
from rain or sun, even if there is an eruv. Opening an umbrella constitutes a
violation of Boneh- building (even though temporary in nature).Umbrellas may not
be used on Shabbos or Yom Tov even if left open from before, even with an eruv,
as the umbrella is considered an ohel- canopy in all cases. One may hold a
jacket or plastic bag over their head, if there is an eruv, as these do not
constitute an ohel- canopy.
Lech Lecha - October 23, 2004
One of the 39 Melachot of Shabbos is Losh- the combining of liquid with a
solid mass. It is most preferable to mix tuna and mayonnaise prior to Shabbos
thereby avoiding problems of Losh. A mixture of large bits or chunks of food
that cling together with a liquid is not a violation of Losh as the individual
pieces do not appear to blend into a single mass. One may therefore mix tuna
that is not finely chopped on Shabbos. However, creating a tuna paste with the
mayonnaise even right before the meal is most problematic.
Vayeira - October 30, 2004
Gozez-shearing is the cutting of any growing part of the body of any
creature. Cutting or tweezing hair from one's head or body is forbidden, even
pulling out a single grey hair. A band-aid that is stuck to the skin where hair
grows, if one needs to remove the band-aid on Shabbos, one should use vegetable
or olive oil to loosen the adhesive thereby avoiding Gozez. One may also apply a
solvent such as nail polish remover to the band-aid allowing the band-aid to
slide off without pulling any hairs.
Chayei Sarah - November 6, 2004
In a Bais-Avel, shiva home, not only are we not to greet the mourner, but
must wait to speak to the mourner till they initiate conversation. The mitzvah
is not necessarily to talk to the mourner, your very presence is the mitzvah. In
addition, there are laws that pertain to a Bais-Avel (as there are laws that
pertain to proper conduct in a shul.) Thus one is not to greet friends and
acquaintances and "catch up" on past events and happenings in a shiva home.
Toldot - November 13, 2004
Makeh B'Patish literally the final hammer blow, is the Melacha of
completing, perfecting or repairing an item rendering it usable. Regarding
shoes: If one has a new pair of shoes,that have not yet been laced, one may not
insert the laces on Shabbos, this would constitute Makeh B'Patish. If the laces
were removed (by a child) they may be re-inserted. If the original shoelace is
lost or unusable, one may temporarily replace it with a different color
shoelace. This is not Makeh B'Patish as the variant color is not meant to
perfect or repair the shoe.
Vayeitzeh - November 20, 2004
Halacha does not permit one to place a liquid on the blech on Shabbos under
any conditions. Moreover, one has to be careful not to place the soup or gravy
they wish to serve at lunch even next to the blech, where the temperature could
potentially reach "Yad Soledes"- 110F.
Vayishlach - November 27, 2004
To remove solid food from the refrigerator and place it directly on the
blech on Shabbos is prohibited. However, if a pot filled with food is on the
blech, one may place dry food from the refrigerator on that pot. It is
permissible to place dry food from the refrigerator on to a non-adjustable hot
plate which is used for reheating and not for cooking.
Vayeishev - December 4, 2004
There are 3 Rabbinic mitzvos that have at its core Pirsumei Nisah-
publicizing the miracle: 4 cups of wine at the Pesach Seder, reading the
Megillah on Purim and lighting of the Chanukah candles. While ideally one would
not have a Seder alone, or read the Megillah by themselves, if they had no
choice- they could fulfill these obligations alone. The Chofetz Chaim in his
Mishneh Brurah rules that if one is lighting the menorah in a circumstance that
no-one else will see it, one would not recite the blessings. The same gentle,
sensitive Rabbi suggests you may wake someone- enabling the one lighting to
fulfill his mitzvah. (Rav Moshe Feinstein ruled more leniently).
Mikeitz/ Shabbat Chanukah - December 11, 2004
u If necessary one (leaving their home) may extinguish the Ner Chanukah-
once it has burnt the proper time of hour after nightfall (Tzais). v From the
letter of the law one may derive benefit from the Ner Chanukah- after hour if
a) they prior stipulated that only hour worth of fuel should be Ner Mitzvah,
and b) there is no issue of Maris Ayin. w It is most preferable that women as
well recite full Hallel each day of Chanukah.
Vayigash - December 18, 2004
This Wednesday is Asarah B'Teves: One may eat until 6:06am, provided they
stipulated prior to going to sleep on Tuesday night. If one should otherwise
awake by themselves, but did not make the stipulation, they may not eat. If a
pregnant or nursing woman will be distressed or weakened by the fast, she should
not force herself to fast. If one has a bad taste in their mouth, they may
rinse with water or mouthwash, taking precaution not to swallow. If one forgot
that it is a fast day and ate, they must still complete the rest of the fast.
Girls under 12 and boys under 13 are not obligated to fast, but treats should be
avoided.
Vayechi - December 25, 2004
There are times when a person cannot make their own healthcare decisions.
One should have a Halachic Living Will whereby you appoint a proxy, usually a
relative, and indicate who you prefer to be your halachic decisor- posek, so
that the proxy can consult with that individual before making any decisions on
your behalf. Also, you should consult a rabbi before signing any authorization
on the back of your license.
Shemot - January 1, 2005
On Shabbos, one may adjust the hands of a watch or clock to set it to the
correct time only if it is already going and if it is an alarm clock, one is
certain it will not ring while setting it. Moreover, one is allowed to stop the
ringing or buzzing of an alarm clock on Shabbos or Yom Tov, unless it is
electrically operated, as then stopping the alarm would break an electrical
circuit.
Vaeira - January 8, 2005
One may not adjust a timer to turn on a light sooner than originally set
before Shabbos. However, if the light is already on, and the timer is set to
turn the light off, some poskim permit readjusting the timer (sliding out the
pin or clip) to prevent the light being turned off. Even to this lenient view-
one may not remove the tripper and reset it for a later time on Shabbos. In
cases of clear necessity one could rely on the above.
Bo - January 15, 2005
One is not permitted to derive benefit from an activity prohibited to a Jew
on Shabbos that is done by a non-Jew on his behalf, even without his asking. For
example: A non-Jew turns on a light enabling you to read. However, if they turn
on the light for themselves, then a Jew may derive benefit from the light and
even ask the non-Jew to leave the light on so that others may benefit from that
light as it was done initially and exclusively for the non-Jew's benefit.
Beshalach - January 22, 2005
In honor of Tu B'Shevat this Tuesday: We not only eat fruits of Eretz
Yisrael, but review the laws of brachos. The order of brachos is: Ha-Motzi;
Mezonos; Ha-Gefen; Ha-Eitz over Shivas HaMinim in the following order: olive,
date, grape, fig, pomegranate; then Ha-Eitz over other fruit, Ha-Adamah; and
Shehakol. Where the Ha-Adamah (vegetable) is preferred over the Ha-Eitz (fruit),
it is said first, even if the Ha-Eitz is from Shivas HaMinim.
Yisro - January 29, 2005
One may not shovel any snow on Shabbos- be it hard or soft fresh fallen. One
may sweep away soft fresh fallen snow to create a narrow path. One may not make
snow-balls or a snowman on Shabbos- it would be a Rabbinic violation of Boneh-
building. It is permitted to spread salt on an icy walk or steps on Shabbos to
prevent someone from slipping and falling.
Mishpatim - February 05, 2005
Kli Rishon is the vessel (pot) in which the food or liquid has cooked. One
may not put cold water into the hot pot of soup even if it is off the blech.
Kli Sheni is the container (cup, bowl) into which hot food or liquid from a Kli
Rishon has been poured. One may put cold water or an ice cube into hot tea or
soup, as Kli Sheni is not M'vashel, does not halachically constitute cooking.
Terumah - February 12, 2005
Regarding the lighting of Shabbos candles- it is preferable to turn off the
electric light immediately prior to candle lighting. One should then turn on the
electric light and proceed to light the Shabbos candles. This way the electric
light is included in the mitzvah of Ner Shabbos, especially since most often the
primary illumination is coming from the electric light.
Tetzaveh - February 19, 2005
Where the light of the refrigerator was accidentally left on and one is
aware of it on Shabbos, one may ask a non-Jew to remove the food from the
refrigerator or to put something into the refrigerator. In addition, while he
cannot instruct the non-Jew directly to remove the bulb on Shabbos, he may
relate the circumstances and explain that he is forbidden to open and close the
refrigerator with the light on, and hope that the non-Jew will understand on his
own and do what he has to do. If one opened the refrigerator on Shabbos only
to find the light on, they must find a non-Jew to close the door on their
behalf.
Ki Tissa - February 26, 2005
There is an interesting disagreement as to when the obligation of reciting
Sheva Brachos sets in, thereby restricting one from leaving.To Reb Moshe
Feinstein zt"l it commences at the beginning of the meal; to the Tzitz Eliezer
at the time of Bircas Hamazon. If one has to leave a wedding or Sheva Brachos
early: If ten or more men are leaving they should recite Sheva Brachos by
themselves with the permission of the Chosson and Kallah One does not wash
prior to the meal One explicitly states before washing for the meal that he
will not join the zimun at the end of the meal.
Vayekhel - March 05, 2005
One of the primary differences between Shabbos and Yom Tov is ochel nefesh-
cooking: food preparation. It is for this reason that one is allowed to have a
non-Jew at his Shabbos table as we are not concerned that the host would cook
anything additional on Shabbos. However, since ochel nefesh is permissible only
for a Jew, it is forbidden to invite a non-Jew to any Yom Tov meal.
Pikudei/ Shekalim - March 12, 2005
When Purim falls on a Friday, regarding the seuda (which must be during the
day): It is most preferable to begin before chatzos (12:02), approximately
11:30am. One can convene their seuda until 3:08pm. After 3:08- one should
minimize their meal to preserve an appetite for Shabbos. In all cases one should
wash and include meat and wine in the seudah.
Vayikra/ Zachor - March 19, 2005
Mishloach Manos may only be given on Purim. One may give the Mishloach Manos
before Purim to a 3rd party to be given on your behalf on Purim. In fact, the
Mishneh Brurah cites the Binyan Tzion, that perhaps one does not fulfill (or
fully fulfill) the mitzvah of Mishloach Manos if they bring it themselves,
rather it should be delivered by a shaliach- messenger. This shaliach could be a
child (including the child of the sender) or even a non-Jew. It is therefore
best to send at least one Mishloach Manos with a shaliach.
Tzav/ Shushan Purim - March 26, 2005
The Megillah may not be read on Shabbos. This Purim- Shushan Purim is on
Shabbos. Thus creating a "Purim Meshulash"- a three day celebration in
Yerushalayim. They read the Megillah as we did on Friday, and gave Matanos
L'Evyonim as well. On Shabbos they read an additional reading of V'Yavo Amalek
which we read on Friday. On Sunday they enjoy their Seudah and send Mishloach
Manos.
Shemini/ Parah - April 02, 2005
One who is davening Shemonah Esrei is standing before Hashem. Thus, one is
not allowed to walk in front of the individual who is davening Shemonah Esrei,
within 6 feet. It is preferable to wait until Kedushah, after having taken 3
steps back, before returning the 3 steps forward. One is similarly not to walk
in front of someone who is waiting to take the 3 steps forward. Additionally,
one should not take 3 steps back if the individual behind them has not yet
finished their Shemonah Esrei. Finally, one should try to situate oneself in a
place where one will not hinder the passage of others.
Tazria/ HaChodesh - April 09, 2005
The law of Hagalah, immersing a metal pot, silverware, etc that have come
into contact with hot chametz; to kasher them for Pesach requires that they not
be used prior to koshering for 24 hours. Since the koshering this year is on
April 17th, whatever is being koshered should not be used on Shabbos. In
addition, whatever is being kashered must be spotlessly clean, including the
space between the tines of a fork.
Metzora - April 16, 2005
Plan A: For those using chametz for lechem mishneh next Shabbos, please note
that it is only the chametz that must be eaten by 10:14AM, the meal may continue
as long as desired.
Plan B: For those using egg matzah for lechem mishneh, it is preferable to use
Manischewitz grape matzah as opposed to egg matzah. The explanation will be
given at the Shabbos HaGadol Drasha.
Acharei Mot/ Shabbat HaGadol - April 23, 2005
We are all familiar with the law that no preparation may be done on Shabbos
for Yom Tov (such as removing food from the freezer or setting the Seder table).
On the other hand, everybody, especially children, should take a nap on Shabbos
afternoon thereby helping them to remain awake for the entire Seder.
Interestingly, the Be'er Heitev in the Shulchan Aruch cautions that one should
not specifically state that they are sleeping on Shabbos to be rested for the
Seder after Shabbos. This, too, would be an infringement on the honor and
dignity of Shabbos.
Shevi'i Shel Pesach - April 30, 2005
We do not recite the bracha "Shehecheyanu" on the last days of Yom Tov of
Pesach- as it's all considered one Yom Tov. If however, one (in hospital) did
not recite the "Shehecheyanu" until the 4th or even last day the bracha should
be recited then. If one sold their chometz before Pesach: a) If they find a box
of cookies on Pesach (away from anything that is sold) and they were unaware of
its existence before Pesach, it is preferable to throw it out- lest they be in
violation of "Ba'al Year'eh" and "Ba'al Yimatze"- possessing chometz on Pesach.
b) If they find it after Pesach, it may be eaten.
Kedoshim - May 07, 2005
There are 2 primary practices regarding the time period of the observance of
the restrictions of the Omer. Plan A begins the 2nd night of Pesach until the
morning of Lag B'Omer (Fri 5/27). Plan B: from the conclusion of Rosh Chodesh
Iyar until the morning of Shloshes Y'mei Hagbolah (Fri 6/10).One observing Plan
A may attend a wedding through Rosh Chodesh Iyar, and one observing Plan B can
attend a wedding after Lag B'Omer. Weddings, haircuts and listening to music are
prohibited during the Omer.
Emor - May 14, 2005
Upon seeing the ruins of Yerushalayim and the Kotel, the halacha prescribes
that one tear kriah (approximately 3") on the left side- as for a parent r.l.
If one has a garment that was previously torn, one may tear an additional tear
on the same garment- an additional 3". One should not sew the garment. On a
more positive note, when visiting Israel, know that before you purchase produce-
fruits and vegetables, they are to be m'ussar- have terumah and ma'aser taken
there from. Ask to see the Teudah, or take the formula for hafrasha with you.
Behar - May 21, 2005
This Sunday night and Monday is Pesach Sheni. Aside from not saying
Tachanun, and some having the custom of eating matzah, there are no special
observances on this day; yet. However, it does serve as the model for many
Halachic issues. The Talmud (Pesachim 93A) has a dispute whether Pesach Sheni is
a "make-up" for the first Pesach or an independent holiday. The practical
difference being if one converted between the first and second Pesach. (If it is
a make-up for the first Pesach then as he was not Jewish then, and not obligated
then, he would not bring Pesach Sheni. If it is an independent holiday, then he
is obligated.) Similarly, this serves as the model for the tragic case of a girl
or boy becoming Bas or Bar Mitzvah during the week of shiva- Do they then
observe any mourning at all?
Bechukosai - May 28, 2005
In keeping with Lag B'Omer, the Torah (Vayikra 19:27) teaches: "You shall
not round off the edge of your scalp and you shall not destroy the edges of your
beard." The Talmud (Makkos 20B) understands this to mean one is not to even out
his temples with the hairline behind his ear and the hairline of his forehead.
Cutting the hair of the temples is rounding and is forbidden. The temple in this
context refers to all the hair that protrudes downward from the imaginary line
drawn between the hair of the forehead and the hair of the back of the head. It
goes down to the jawbone.
Bamidbar - June 04, 2005
In honor of Yom Yerushalayim: This year is a year of Maaser Sheni.
Throughout the land of Israel observant Jews redeem produce onto a coin which is
kept in a guarded location, not to be used for a secular purpose, such as the
purchase of ice-cream. There is one significant difference between Yerushalayim
and the rest of the land. In Yerushalayim one can only redeem produce that is
tameh. Therefore one must wet their hands and touch the produce, thereby
rendering it tameh, enabling one to redeem it in Yerushalayim.
Naso - June 11, 2005
Can a visitor from Israel recite Kiddush on Yom Tov Sheni for his host? Can
a visitor to Israel ask his Israeli host to do a melachah for him on Yom Tov
Sheni? Can a kohein from Israel who finds himself in synagogue in America on Yom
Tov Sheni duchin? What if he is the only kohein?
For these answers and many more join us on Sunday night (Tikkun Leil Shavuos)
Beha'aloscha - June 18, 2005
If a person owns a dwelling (house) that he does not reside in, he is not
obligated to affix mezuzos. A garage used only for a car is exempt from a
mezuzah. However, if it is used to store household items, be it sodas or even
the succah, one is obligated to affix a mezuzah with a bracha. The mezuzah case
is considered a holy object requiring that it be buried with sheimos after its
use. An emergency exit is not obligated to have a mezuzah.
Shelach - June 25, 2005
There is a disagreement between the poskim as to the permissibility of
making ice-cubes or fruit ices on Shabbos and Yom Tov. Some regard this as a
form of molid which is prohibited on Shabbos. Others permit the making of ice if
an important need arises. One may use the ice-cubes that were made before
Shabbos, and one may even place the tray filled with water going into Shabbos.
However, many refrigerators have automatic ice-makers: one may not remove ice
from the ice-maker unless it is turned off before Shabbos.
Korach - July 2, 2005
(From Israel) The tragic story of Korach is not only an important historical
occurrence teaching us not to challenge the authority of Moshe Rabbeinu, but
according to the Chazon Ish- in his work Emunah U'Bitachon- it has significant
practical halachic applications. If one is machzik b'machloket, that is
perpetuates a feud, does not try to resolve differences or refuses to
participate in mediation, he violates the biblical prohibition from this week's
Torah reading (Bamidbar 17:5) that one should not emulate the ways of Korach and
his band.
Chukkas - July 9, 2005
(From Israel) Yitzchak Avinu wanted to go down to Mitzrayim when he
encountered a famine (Bereishis 26:1-3) as his father, Avraham had done. Hashem
ordered him to remain where he was in Eretz Yisrael, in Grar, one of the ancient
Philistine cities near Azzah - present day Gaza. To all opinions, even the
Rambam, the southern boundary of Eretz Yisrael is minimally Wadi Al-Arish, more
south than Gush Katif. Gush Katif is part of Eretz Yisrael: One is obligated in
all the agricultural laws of Eretz Yisrael, ie: terumot and ma'asrot, therein.
Shevi and I were privileged to visit Gush Katif with a full bus from One Israel
this past Monday, and pray that we will visit there again on our next mission.
Balak - July 16, 2005
There is a tradition to recite Ma Tovu
from this weeks parsha (Bamidbar 24:5) upon entering the synagogue. To Rav
Soloveitchik ztl, it is a matir-asking permission, from Hashem to begin
praying, as Aleinu is the matir to stop praying and leave the
synagogue. To the Baruch SheAmar, sefer on the siddur of the Torah Temima, (Rav
Baruch HaLevi Epstein zl) the term Yaakov refers to the Jew in galus-
exile and the term ohel refers to a temporary dwelling; in contrast to
Yisrael which refers to a Jew in Eretz Yisrael and mishkan which
refers to a permanent dwelling. Thus this reminds us of the teaching (Talmud
Berachos 8A) that in the future all synagogues in galus will be
transferred to Eretz Yisrael.
Pinchas - July 23, 2005
(Day before Fast of
17thof Tammuz)
One may awake and eat before 4:33AM this Sunday morning provided they made a
stipulation / had intent to eat prior to going to sleep. Even if one ate
or drank on a fast, one should still continue to fast. A nursing mother or
pregnant woman may fast if she will not be weakened or adversely affected by so
doing. (No heroics!) One who began fasting in one location and traveled to
another, ends their fast as per the latter location, be it earlier or later than
the time where he began the fast.
Matos - July 30, 2005
(The Three Weeks)
The rule is we do not recite the bracha Shehecheyanu, which is thanking Hashem
for enabling us to reach this time, as this time is a sad one. Some authorities
permit the recitation of Shehecheyanu on Shabbos during the 3 weeks, but not
even on Shabbos during the 9 days. Clothing that require Shehecheyanu (Shabbos
and dress clothes) may not be purchased during the 3 weeks, unless by not doing
so one suffers a significant loss. A Shehecheyanu is recited at: the birth of a
baby girl; a Pidyon HaBen; and in Eretz Yisrael at a Bris Milah.
Massei - August 7, 2005
(The Nine Days)
There is a misconception that swimming is prohibited during the 9 days because
of sakanah - potential danger. It is true that one should especially avoid
dangerous situations (e.g. riding a motorcycle for the first time) during the 9
days. The correct reason is that bathing during the 9 days is to be restricted
and swimming is the classic rechitzah shel taanug- enjoyable bathing. It is
with difficulty that many permit a hot shower next Friday- even for Shabbos
Chazon.
Devarim - August 14, 2005
(Day before Tisha
B'Av)
Laws for
Tisha BAv on a Motzai Shabbat:
Shabbos afternoon it is preferable to study Torah related to Tisha BAv, if not
the Parsha and Pirkei Avos may be learned. We do not have a seudah
hamafsekes this Shabbos with a hard-boiled egg, sitting on the floor. One
should not say at Shalosh Seudos that they are eating to have strength
for the fast, as this is a form of hachana (preparation) on Shabbos for
the next day. While the fast begins at 7:56PM Shabbos afternoon, leather shoes
should not be removed until nightfall (8:38PM). We do not recite Havdalah this
Motzai Shabbos, we do recite ata chonantanu in the Shemoneh Esrei, and
women who do not recite Maariv should say baruch hamavdil bein kodesh lchol
before doing any activity prohibited on Shabbos. Before Eicha, the blessing borei
morei haaish is recited over a candle. No blessing over besamim is
recited. On Sunday night only the blessing of borei pri hagafen and the
closing blessing of Havdalah is recited prior to eating. If an adult has to eat
this Sunday, they should first recite the blessing of Havdalah over beer or
juice (not grape juice). If need be, a husband may make Havdalah for his wife
who is eating on Tisha BAv, and the cup is drunk by her or by a child.
Va'Eschanan - August 21, 2005
The
appropriate bracha over cholent depends on its specific ingredients. If
it contains beans, potatoes and meat that are mixed together, the proper
bracha is borei pri haadamah, as it is eaten together and the
vegetables are the majority. The bracha acharonah is borei nefashos.
If kishke (not inter-mingled) is in the cholent, it requires its own borei
minei mezonos. Where barley as well is added, only a borei minei
mezonos is recited, as part of the mixture (each spoonful) is from the five
species of grain requiring a mezonos. Interestingly, it is considered the
ikar- primary ingredient, even if the other ingredients are more
plentiful.
Ekev - August 28, 2005
The
bracha achrona for a portion of cholent containing barley depends on the
amount of barley consumed. If one had a kzais, approximately 1.1 fl
oz. of barley al hamichya is recited. Less than that amount- while a
mezonos was recited before eating the barley cholent- a borei nefashos
is said. Finally, a good word to the wise: Recite a mezonos over a piece
of cake at the beginning of the Kiddush, before doing so note if there is
cholent, keep the cholent in mind when reciting the bracha over the cake,
and the bracha rishona for the cake includes the cholent. Similarly, the
bracha achrona for the cake includes the cholent.
Re'eh - September 3, 2005
There are certain mitzvos that can only be done by a person themself, in
person. Nichum Aveilim, comforting the mourner, has two aspects to it. One is to
console the living mourners, the second aspect is to honor the soul of the
deceased. Rav Moshe Feinstein ztl ruled that while it is most preferable to
fulfill this mitzvah in person wherever possible, one can fulfill the mitzvah of
Nichum Aveilim over the telephone to satisfy ones responsibility to the living
mourners. The second aspect of the mitzvah may only be fulfilled by visiting in
person.
Shoftim - September 10, 2005
Regarding the bracha Asher Yatzar recited after tending to ones personal
needs in the bathroom: The Ramah understands the conclusion of the bracha
umaflih laasos- He acts wondrously - to refer to the fact that Hashem houses
the spiritual soul in a most physical environment. If one is taking a laxative
to clean out ones bowel (in preparation for a colonoscopy), the Mishnah Brurah
brings 2 opinions as to how often Asher Yatzar is to be said. The first
opinion says but once at the end, and the other each time one eliminates. The
prevalent opinion is to recite the bracha each time.
Ki Setzei - September 17, 2005
For the
bracha of Borei MOrai HaAish in the Havdalah ceremony, it is
preferable to have 2 or more wicks. If one had 1 candle (wick) they could recite
the bracha over it. When one recites the bracha over the aish- the Ramah (Orach
Chaim 298) opines to close the right hand with the thumb inside the fist. Then
expose your nails to the light of the fire and note the difference between the
skin and the nail. This has Kabbalistic significance (nails being a sign of
growth and blessing) and also insures that you are getting benefit from the
fire.
Ki Savo - September 24, 2005
The 2
days of Rosh Hashanah are different than the first 2 or last 2 days of Pesach,
Shavuos or Sukkos. They are considered halachically 1 long day. Therefore there
is the question whether we need to repeat the Shehecheyanu blessing on the 2nd
night of Rosh Hashanah. The practice is to have a new fruit on the table or to
wear a new garment at the recitation of Kiddush, and the blessing of
Shehecheyanu will cover both. On the 1st night, if one has a new fruit or
garment, to Reb Shlomo Zalman Auerbach ztl one would preferably not utilize the
Shehecheyanu for both the Kiddush and the new fruit, but recite another
Shehecheyanu later for the fruit.
Netzavim - October 1, 2005
There is a Bris on Rosh Hashanah only if the baby boy was born by natural
delivery, and not caesarian section.
The Bris is performed in shul before the blowing of the shofar, because:
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Tadir V She Eino Tadir- Tadir Kodem. A mitzvah performed more frequently
takes precedence over a less frequent mitzvah.
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We say in our prayers Zchor bris Avraham v Akeidas Yitzchak, remember
the Bris of Avraham and the binding of Yitzchak- the milah corresponds to the
Bris of Avraham; the shofar to Akeidas Yitzchak.
Vayelech - October 8, 2005
There is a mitzvah to 'take in', or welcome, the Yom Tov of Yom Kippur while it
is still Erev Yom Kippur. Therefore most women at candle-lighting take upon
themselves 'Tosfos Yom HaKippurim', this addition to Yom Kippur. If, however,
one makes a condition at candle-lighting not to accept the holiday until after
they drive to shul, they should not recite the bracha of Shehecheyanu at
candle-lighting, as this bracha can only be recited when one accepts upon
themselves Yom Kippur. They, together with the whole congregation, would rely
upon the blessing of Shehechayanu of the Chazzan. .
Ha'azinu - October 15, 2005 (Pre-Sukkos)
The
construction of the sukkah is not only a hechsher mitzvah- enabling one
to fulfill the mitzvah of sukkah, but the construction or building of the sukkah
is in itself a mitzvah. Therefore, not only may the sukkah not be any under
projection, overhang or tree, but it must be constructed (schach placed
on top) after the tree or other obstacle has been removed. (If not, the sukkah
is posul- unfit for use, based upon taaseh vloh min ha asui.)
The schach should not be nailed down to the sukkah, and should
preferably not lie directly on something subject to ritual impurity (eg: metal
poles).
Chol HaMoed Sukkos - October 22, 2005
Regarding an
avel- mourner within 12 months for a parent, or the shloshim for a
relative: The minhag is:
1. The mourner does not participate in the hakafos at hoshanos
with the lulav and esrog
2. He may participate in the hakafos on Simchas Torah with a Torah, but
not to dance
3. He may receive an aliyah on Simchas Torah
4. After shloshim, the avel/mourner may participate in the festive
Kiddush in honor of the completion of the Torah, as he could participate in a
siyum throughout the year of Aveilus.
B'reishis - October 29, 2005
In the Haftorah for Yom Kippur Shacharis, we read: You honor it
(Shabbos) by not engaging in your own ways (work), from seeking your needs, or
discussing the forbidden.- MMtzoh chef tzicha, vdaber daver. The
Halacha teaches: Your personal business affairs are not to be discussed,
but the business affairs of Shamayim, mitzvah related matters may be
discussed. It is therefore permitted to bid for honors related to the service on
Shabbos and Yom Tov. Similarly, on a regular basis the pledging and announcing a
specific amount for a mi-shebarach is permitted.
Noach - November 5, 2005
One who sees a rainbow recites the bracha: Zocher HaBris VNeeman BBriso
VKayom BMaamoro. As long as the rainbow is still visible, as with the
blessing for thunder and lightning, one can interrupt his prayers (not Shemonah
Esrei), preferably between paragraphs of the Shema and Pisukei DZimra, to
recite the bracha. One should preferably not share with others, come and look
at the rainbow as it contains a potentially bad omen.
Lech Lecha - November 12, 2005
The mitzvah of Milah- circumcision, begins on the 8th day and may be
performed from sunrise to sunset. It is preferable to do the Milah in the
morning, because of zrizus- alacrity in the performance of mitzvos. If, at a
later time in the day, there would be more people in attendance (brov am), it
is still preferable to do the Milah in the morning. If one was circumcised prior
to Day 8, he requires hatofas dom bris- the drawing of blood, by a competent
mohel at a later time. The night prior to the Milah it is customary to gather
young children to recite Shema and other verses as a segulah for the baby.
Vayera - November 19, 2005
The ideal way to fulfill the mitzvah of Bikur Cholim is to personally visit
and tend to the patients needs. Often, your very presence is the best present
for the patient; therefore try to have a pleasant story or topic in mind to
distract the individual from their illness. An integral part of the mitzvah is
to daven for their wellbeing. As you take leave, if you know their Hebrew name
and that of their mother, fine; if not, ask them, and wish them by name a Refuah
Shelaimah. If one cannot visit personally, a phone call constitutes a partial
fulfillment of the mitzvah.
Chayei Sarah - November 26, 2005
To recite one of the Sheva Brachos it is preferable to have eaten or drank
(something other than water) from the meal served to the bride and groom.
However, bdieved (if called upon) one may recite the blessing even without any
participation in the meal. While the chassan is counted as part of the minyan
for Sheva Brachos, he should not recite one of the brachos. A boy under Bar
Mitzvah may not recite one of the Sheva Brachos.
Toldos - December 3, 2005
One is forbidden to damage someone elses property. If they do, they are
labeled a mazik- one who has caused damage, and they are obligated to pay any
and all damages. Mitzvah 127 in Sefer HaChinuch teaches that if one damages
Temple (Bais HaMikdash) property, they violate not only the regular law of
mazik, but its called meilah- damaging the sacred. In addition to restitution
of damages, a financial fine was imposed and the bringing of a korban. While
every act of affront between man and man is indirectly a sin against Hashem,
damaging sacred property is both a sin against Hashem and against man.
Vayetze - December 10, 2005
The origin of the minhag of informing people that a Bris will occur, rather
than inviting them directly, is the Gemara Pesachim 113B that states: That among
those individuals that are subject to cherem- excommunication vis--vis heaven,
is one who does not participate in a seudas mitzvah (festive meal) that is
served at a Bris or wedding. While a Bris is not a davar shebekedusha and as
such does not require a minyan, it is most preferable to have a minyan as the
recitation of Birkas Hagomel requires a minyan, and one of the reasons for
reciting Hagomel is one who is freed from prison.
Vayishlach - December 17,
2005
Regarding non-kosher food: In addition
to the prohibition of eating non-kosher food, some (such as chometz on Pesach
and cooked meat and milk mixtures) is Asur BHanah- one is not allowed to get
any benefit from them. Regarding other forbidden foods there is an additional
Isur Schorah- prohibition to do business with them. Thus, a Jew should not sell
non-kosher food (meat, fish). However, he may deliver these items, as one can
get benefit from them, one just cannot do business with them. Being a waiter or
waitress in a non-kosher restaurant is highly problematic, lest a not yet
observant Jew wish to eat, as one is not permitted to serve non-kosher food to a
Jew.
Vayeshev - December 24, 2005
The Mishnah Brurah (673:4) recommends
the use of oil for the mitzvah of Ner Chanukah over candles as the miracle
occurred with oil. The Sdei Chemed notes that even a poorer quality oil still
takes precedence over candles. The Shaarei Teshuvah brings the following
interesting question: If one did not have oil and set up the menorah with
candles (hazmanah) and at the last moment gets oil, the majority side with the
Chacham Tzvi that he would remove the candles and light the oil.
Miketz - December 31, 2005
In the synagogue this Motzei Shabbat,
we follow the MChaber and Ramo and we light Ner Chanukah prior to Havdalah.
Though usually Tadir and Sheaino Tadir- when one has two mitzvos to fulfill the
one performed more frequently takes precedence, still Ner Chanukah is lit first,
to demonstrate our reluctance to conclude Shabbos, and thus delay the recitation
of Havdalah. The Taz and Maharal argue and rule to light Havdalah first. At
home, while the Mishneh Brurah concludes that both ways are acceptable, Rav
Ovadia Yosef concludes Havdalah should precede Ner Chanukah.
Vayigash -
January 7,
2006
Regarding Asarah BTeves (this Tuesday) from the letter of the law, one may
bathe, providing they are careful not to swallow any water. Regarding brushing
of the teeth: The Shulchan Aruch (MChaber) rules not to, and the Mishneh Brurah
rules that if one would be in tzaar (distress), they may, if careful not to
swallow. If one mistakenly either ate or drank, or needed to take medication
with water, they should continue as if they did not interrupt their fast. If one
did eat before Mincha, there is an interesting machlokes as to whether they may
add Aneinu to the Shemona Esrei. To Reb Shlomo Zalman Auerbach ztl- they may,
but must change the text to yom hatzom hazeh. Reb Chaim Kanievsky, shlita,
says this is not our practice. A non-faster does say Selichos.
Vaychi -
January 14,
2006
In
following the example of Yaakov Avinu, who put his house in order before
passing: It is important to have a kosher will. What differentiates a kosher
will from a secular will is the following: Jewish Law says that one can
distribute or bequeath his possessions to another only while they are alive.
One cannot leave instructions that after their passing, particular transactions
are to occur. One cannot effect a kinyan- halachic transfer- to another after
one has died. Therefore it is mandatory that any of many kinyanim be
accomplished while the individual is alive (still giving them control over the
estate), enabling the recipient to receive the gift an hour prior to death. You
need a lawyer that is familiar with these aspects of Jewish Law.
Shmos - January 21, 2006
A kosher home requires not only kosher food, but that the dishes and cutlery
be immersed in a mikveh. One is not permitted to eat with utensils that have not
been immersed, even on a temporary basis. While the obligation to immerse metal
utensils is biblical, and glass utensils, rabbinic, the prohibition of using a
utensil without immersion is rabbinic. Therefore, if one is in doubt (when
eating at someone elses home) if the dishes were immersed, they may be used
sofek drabbanan lkula- a doubt in a rabbinic law is ruled leniently. If,
however, one knows for certain that the utensils have not been immersed, one
should not eat from the dishes or silverware. Dry food should be eaten with
plastic cutlery, and similarly soup with a plastic spoon. There is a leniency in
a hotel or restaurant, if the utensils have not been immersed, they may still be
used.
Va'era - January 28, 2006
Not very common, but most intriguing: The Yerushalmi Pesachim (10:1) cites
the four expressions of redemption, found in the beginning of Parshas Vaeirah,
as the source of the obligation of drinking four cups of wine at the Pesach
seder. While one may drink after cup #2, prior to cup #3 (during the meal), one
is not permitted to drink any additional wine between cups #3 and #4. What if
there is a chassan and kallah during their week of Sheva Brochos? What do we do,
if we are not to add to the total number of cups, and ordinarily we recite
Birkas Hamazon over one cup, and a separate cup for Sheva Brochos? There are
several opinions: A.To combine Birkas Hamazon and Sheva Brochos on one cup.
B.The Rama in Orach Chaim 473:4 (Darkei Moshe) rules Birkas Hamazon is to be
said over the 3rd cup by all except the chassan, who uses his 3rd cup for Sheva
Brochos.
Bo February 4, 2006
The Talmud Sanhedrin (42A) teaches that anyone who blesses the new month by
blessing the new moon in its proper time, it is as if he greets the Divine
Presence. The question is: Is one obligated to see the new moon in order to
bless and to greet the Shechinah? Or if one sees the new moon then they are to
recite the blessing? Rav Isser Zalman Meltzer ztl felt that it was not
obligatory, and the Chazon Ish ztl opined that it was mandatory. The Nodeh
BYehuda (Kama O.C.41) has the following exciting case: It was cloudy all of
Adar until the middle of the reading of the megillah (next to last night to do
the mitzvah of Kiddush Levana): Does the tzibbur stop to go outside for Kiddush
Levana? The Nodeh BYehuda said yes, to interrupt the megillah (Wow!) and Reb
Shlomo Kluger ztl said not to.
B'shalach February 11, 2006
This weeks Halacha is for the birds: There are two reasons why on Shabbos Shira
some have the practice to put grain (kasha) crumbs outside for the birds. 1)
They too said Shira, provided music in background for Shira. 2) When some tried
to undermine the authority of Moshe who said the mun would not fall on Shabbos,
and when they (Dasan & Avirom) put out mun on Shabbos morning the birds ate it.
In appreciation thereof we put food out for the birds. The Magen Avraham (O.C
324:7 and Mishneh Brurah 324:31) objected to the practice since it is only
permitted to feed domestic animals and not those of the wild. The Aruch
HaShulchan, Tzitz Eliezer, maintains the practice by claiming it is not for them
as much as it is for us, and it is not being placed in front of the birds,
rather they come later. To all opinions one may shake out crumbs of a
tablecloth.
Yisro February 18, 2006
Yisro is lauded by Chazal (Sanhedrin 94A) for the use of Boruch Hashem.
Similarly, are Yaakov (Bereishis 27:21) and Yosef (Bereishis 33:3) lauded for
using the name of Hashem constantly. However, the name of Hashem, and even the
proper noun G-d is to be used in a reverent manner. Thus, when witnessing an
unexpected event, oh gosh is much preferred to oh G-d. Finally, appending
the proper noun G-d in a derisive or demeaning fashion, such as adding it to
that which sounds like bamn it, would be a terrible, disrespectful use of the
name. While we do take money into the bathroom, though it has In G-d we trust,
its only partly because it would be so difficult to leave it outside, and
because one doesnt have to go to that extreme.
Mishpatim - February 25, 2006
It is forbidden to cut down a tree, especially a fruit bearing tree (Devarim
20:19-20). However, for the purpose of yishuv Eretz Yisrael it is permitted.
There are 2 ways to accomplish this: 1) Gramma: Not to cut the living tree down
directly, but rather by abstaining form watering it and allowing it to die by
itself, one accomplishes the desired end without violating the letter of the
law. 2) If time is an issue one can have the tree cut down via a non-Jew. The
community of Atzmona, that was expelled from Gush Katif, is relocating from Ir
Emunah to Shomriyah and wishes to build a school where there presently stands a
vineyard, is making every effort to replant the vineyard.
Terumah March 4, 2006
The Torah (Shmos 12:17) teaches UShmartem es HaMatzos- you shall
observe/ guard the matzos. Rashi learns that one must ensure that the matzos are
baked properly, chametz free. In addition to other poskim, one must bake
the matzo lshma- for the sake and express purpose of the mitzvah. The
Biblical mitzvah is to eat matzo on the 1st night of Pesach. Ideally,
one should say in the preparation Lshem Matzos Mitzvah. If one said Lshem
Matzos- it is a machlokes ! The Rosh permits it and the Or Zaruah
says it is insufficient. The Chareidim Shmura Matzo Bakery says Lshem
Matzos Mitzvah throughout the preparation process.
Tetsaveh March 11, 2006
From the Gemara Megillah (7A) it would appear that it is preferable to send 2
different food items or 1 food and 1 beverage to fulfill the mitzvah of
Mishloach Manot. The Mishneh Brurah (695:19) writes that even 2
variations of the same food (2 different kinds of meat) or 2 different beverages
(2 different wines) is satisfactory. The mitzvah of Matanot LEvyonim-
giving money to the poor is not your usual mitzvah of tzedakah, as
on a daily basis we are not instructed to give anyone and everyone that extends
their hand for assistance. Rather, our obligation of Simchas
Purim- the joy and happiness of the day, is fulfilled not only by our seudah
but by sharing it with others through Mishloach Manot and gladdening the
poor and needy. It is not a law of tzedakah, but a law of simcha.
Ki Sissa - March 18, 2006
In honor of the ki-yor in this weeks parsha, and the obligation of the kohanim
to wash their hands prior to serving in the mikdash, we wash our hands daily
upon awakening (negel vasser) to demonstrate our readiness to serve Hashem in
our daily activities. This washing differs than the washing before eating bread.
Upon arising in the morning, getting a haircut, after shaving, after bathing,
cutting of ones nails, visiting a cemetery or touching a dead body, one washes
bsarugin- alternating. Fill the cup with the right hand, pass to the left hand,
pour on right- then pour on left, and repeat: right, left and again. In
contrast, the washing of hands before eating bread is twice on right, and then
twice on left (some wash 3 times on right and 3 times on left).
Vayakhel/Pekudei - March 25, 2006
The laws of Hatmanah -insulating foods, are detailed.
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One may not wrap an electric urn or hot pot of soup with a towel, or
similar cover, even before Shabbos if the pot or urn will be completely covered.
If part of the urn or pot will be uncovered it is permissible to place the
covering, even on Shabbos, to Rav Moshe. (Rav Shlomo Zalman would require a
majority be uncovered.) Similarly, one may cover food on the blech on Shabbos,
provided the food will not be completely covered.
There is a major dispute as to whether a crock pot that fits into an enclosure
constitutes Hatmanah. Therefore, it is most preferable to line the inside
walls of the cylinder with tin foil, allowing the foil to extend over the rim.
In addition, the control switch (low-med-high) should be either removed, taped
or covered before Shabbos.
Vayikra April 1, 2006
Vayikra 2:13: On every Korban shall you offer salt. Salt played a
double role on the Jewish table.
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Gemorrah Brachos (40A) rules that after the blessing of HaMotzi where it
is forbidden to talk prior to eating of the bread, it is permissible to
say bring the salt as this could enhance the taste of the bread, hence needed
for the bread and not considered a hefsek (interruption).
After the bracha, nowadays, that we have pas nkiyah- clean tasty
bread, one need not dip the bread in salt, but there should be salt on the
table, to remind us that our shulchan is similar to the mizbach,
and our eating is like the eating of a korban. The minhag of the
Chassam Sofer was not to dip the challah on Friday night in salt
(though there was on the table). Tell me why? Finally, the Rama (OC 475:1) rules
that at the seder we do not dip the matzah in salt before
fulfilling the mitzvah. Tell me why?
Tsav - April 8. 2006
Regarding T'vilas Keilim- immersing of utensils in a mikveh: All metal and
glass (including Pyrex, Duralex and Corelle) utensils made or owned by a non-Jew
that have direct contact with food either during preparation or meal time- are
to be immersed in a mikveh with a bracha. Utensils made of bone, non-glazed
earthenware, plastics (Melmac), stone, rubber or wood do not require T'vila. A
can opener does not require T'vila. Utensils requiring T'vila without a bracha
include: glazed china, porcelain, enamel, Corningware and metal pots coated with
Teflon. The vessel to be immersed must be completely clean, free of dirt,
stickers or glue. (WD-40 is effective in removing adhesive.) The water of the
mikveh must touch the entire vessel, inside and out, and the entire vessel must
be under the water at one time. If a utensil was used either once or many times-
as soon as one learns the law or realizes that the utensil has not been
immersed- it is not to be used again prior to immersion.
Chol HaMoed
Pesach April 15,
2006
Avos (3:15) cautions: One who disgraces the festivals has no share in the world
to come; our Rabbis understand this to refer to lack of respect for Chol
HaMoed. Ideally, we should not work on Chol HaMoed. However, one does
not have to jeopardize their position at work by taking off on Chol HaMoed.
On should dress better on Chol HaMoed than their usual weekday dress.
Haircutting and washing of clothes is prohibited. Unnecessary home repairs
should be avoided, as well as working in the garden. One should honor the
festival by having a meat or poultry meal and wine.
Shmini
April 22,
2006
If meat was cooked in a clean dairy pot, or dairy in a clean meat pot, what is
the status of the food? What about the pot? Whether the meat may be eaten
depends if the pot was used for dairy (ben yomo) in the previous 24
hours. If it was not used, then the pot has no adverse effects on the
meat. A pot used with hot dairy during the past 24 hours would create basar
bchalav- a meat and milk prohibition. A Rav should be consulted if
bitul may apply. Regarding the pot: If the pot is ben yomo (used
within 24 hours with hot dairy) the pot must be kashered. If it was not used in
the prior 24 hours: To the Mechaber it may be used for parve, and to the Rama,
common Ashkenazic practice, the pot is treated as treif until it is
kashered.
Tazria /
Metzora April 29,
2006
Aside from the prohibition of speaking lashon harah there is:
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An additional biblical prohibition to believe lashon harah, if the
listener will then look down upon the person about whom it was spoken. For
example, if one hears that a certain individual left shul one morning before
Kriyat HaTorah: If the listener can immediately be dan lkav zechus-
think of an appropriate reason or extenuating circumstance that explains his
early departure, then he can accept the information. If not, he cannot believe
or accept the information as fact.
It is prohibited to put oneself in a situation that one will certainly hear
lashon harah. If one is in such a situation, and they cannot leave, they
should say to themselves, I do not want to hear this.
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It is forbidden to speak rechilus- to relay information which may cause
people to dislike one another.
Acharei Mos /
Kedoshim May 6,
2006
One who wears a garment that contains shaatnez: wool (sheeps wool) and linen
violates a biblical prohibition every moment they wear the garment. Even
garments that are not made of wool or linen may still contain shaatnez as part
of the shoulder padding, collar or lining. If the garment contains wool in one
part and linen in another, and they dont touch each other, the minhag is to be
lenient. If linen was used to fill a pillow made of wool, or vice versa, one can
be lenient. From Torah, you are not only prohibited to wear shaatnez, it is also
prohibited to cover oneself with it: Belts, hats, socks and gloves that contain
shaatnez may not be worn. Even the smallest amount of shaatnez is forbidden (we
dont say bitul brov). For example, a wool suit whose buttons are sewn with
linen- it is forbidden to wear this suit until the linen thread is removed. Even
if a garment says 100% wool, it may legally still contain linen threads. For
example linen neckties often have a wool lining.
Emor May 13, 2006
The Bnei Yissoschar (Iyar) explains the minhag for children to shoot arrows
with arc-shaped bows on Lag BOmer in the following way: In the lifetime of
Rebbi Shimon Bar Yochai no rainbow was seen in the sky. Rashi (Ksuvos 76B)
writes that the rainbow is a sign of the covenant that Hashem made not to
destroy mankind (Bereishis 9:15). It is thus a sign of His anger, and His
controlling His wrath due to the covenant. (It is for this reason, though we
recite a bracha on seeing a rainbow, we do not call others to see it.) If a
tzaddik lives in that generation, he protects the populace and hence no need for
the sign of the rainbow. On Lag BOmer, the day Rebbi Shimon died, we shoot
arrows shaped like rainbows to remember the great tzaddik, and appreciate the
protection of tzaddikim.
Behar / Bechukosai May 20, 2006
When one purchases a home, the Shulchan Orach (Orach Chaim 223:3) rules the
bracha of Shehecheyanu or HaTov V HaMaytiv is to be recited. An
interesting question: If the house is financed by a mortgage does one recite the
blessing? Both Tsuvot Lev Chaim and Kaf HaChaim rule that since the purchase is
accompanied by incurring a debt, this reduces the joy of the acquisition, and no
bracha is recited. The Tzitz Eliezer (12:19) voices an opposing view:
Given there are mixed emotions- happiness at acquiring the home, and distress at
incurring the debt- there is a precedent in Halacha for treating and
responding to each emotion separately. Case in point: Orach Chaim (223:3): Rav
Yosef Karo ruled that if ones father dies leaving the child with an
inheritance, the heir recites 2 blessings- Dayan HaEmes upon their loss,
and Shehecheyanu for the inheritance. While Ashkenazic practice is not to
recite the Shehecheyanu in this situation, the above principle is valid.
Rav Elyashiv shlita rules that in favor of reciting a blessing upon
acquiring a home financed by a mortgage.
B'midbar -
May 27, 2005
In some circles it is common to utilize the services of a shadchan with the
understanding that if the couple marry a shadchanus fee is paid. What if a
friend (non-professional shadchan) recommends someone for your child on Shabbos
and the couple marry? May the friend claim a shadchanus fee? May the
father claim, since it was told to him on Shabbos and one is not allowed to
benefit from schar Shabbos- work performed on Shabbos, that he does not have
to pay? Rav Yitzchak Zilberstein shlita rules: The friend may collect
their fee. It is comparable, explains the Gra, to one who benefits someone else
though they did not ask for the benefit- the recipient has to pay. (See Bava
Metzia 101A.) Since the actualization of the recommendation (itself a
mitzvah-LShadeich HaBanos) transpired during the week, it is not considered
schar Shabbos.
Shavuous - June
3, 2006
The
reason for davening early Yom Tov Mincha and Kabbalas Shabbos this first day of
Shavuos, is related to the Eruv Tavshilin. There is a basic dispute if from the
Torah one may cook on Yom Tov for Shabbos. It is biblically forbidden to cook on
Yom Tov for Yom Chol (weekday). To the one that prohibits cooking on Yom Tov for
Shabbos, the Eruv Tavshilin works partially based upon Ho-El, since guests may
come on Friday afternoon, and the food may then be served to these guests, thus
the cooking is being done for Friday. If one were to cook until close to
candle-lighting (close to sunset) the food would not be servable prior to that
time, thus undermining the legitimacy of the Eruv Tavshilin. By davening early
and lighting candles early we ensure that the cooking has stopped with
sufficient time to implement Ho-El.
Naso - June 10,
2006
The
Torah in Parshas Naso (6:14) teaches that the nazir brings, upon the completion
of his tenure, a korban chatos- sin offering. Why a sin offering following his
period of sanctity? The Ramban says, because he was on a higher spiritual level,
and his returning to his former life-style in itself requires atonement. The
Rambam in Hilchos Da-Os (3:1) teaches that if a man should argue: since envy,
passion and pride are evil, than I shall separate myself completely from them,
and hence will not eat meat, drink wines, marry, reside in a nice, comfortable
house, nor wear fine clothes but only wool and sackcloth as do the heathen
priests; this is an evil path and it is forbidden to walk therein, as the Torah
calls a nazir who abstained only from enjoying wine a sinner. Important message:
Enjoy, enjoy- but within the Halachic system.
June 17,
2006 Bhaaloscha
A woman was anxiously awaiting her get over many years. She finally
received it, and immediately stood and recited the blessing of
shehecheyanu with shem v malchus. The dayanim (rabbis)
were doubtful whether to respond Amen, for if there is no basis for
a bracha, one is not to answer such a blessing. Rav Zilberstein
shlita (Yerushalayim- son-in-law of HaRav Elyashiv shlita) ruled:
Shehecheyanu is recited in regards to an object of good (worth) such
as new fruit, an inheritance, or for the new holiday, but not for the
removal of a tzara- negative (circumstance). Example: When one is
released from prison they do not recite shehecheyanu. While we
are happy for the woman, the rabbis did well by not answering.
June 24,
2006 Shlach
In yesteryear (days of the Talmud) it was considered a medical necessity to
bathe the baby in hot water prior to and immediately following the Bris
to prevent infection. Case in point: A Shabbos Bris; at the last
moment the hot water that had been prepared was accidentally spilled. Are we
permitted to boil water on Shabbos to allow the Milah to
occur? ?
All agree that if all the water spilled, one is not permitted to boil the
water on Shabbos.
If enough hot water remains to wash the baby before the bris, but not
enough for after, can one the perform the bris, knowing full well
they will need to boil the water after the bris? The Ramban is of the
opinion that once you have enough water to perform the bris,
afterward there is a situation of sakanah (danger to the baby) and a
Jew may boil the water on Shabbos. The Baal HaMaor disagrees
and says one cannot consciously create a situation to necessitate chillul
Shabbos, even on behalf of a choleh (the baby) and the bris
needs to be postponed.
July 1,
2006 Korach
A room with an Aron Kodesh and Sefer Torah is not
automatically absolved from a mezuzah as Korach argued. If the room
is used exclusively for prayer it is exempt from a mezuzah. The
reason being, the Torah mandates a mezuzah placed on beisecha-
your home, your residence, where your mundane and everyday
dwelling and activities take place. This is in contrast to a room where
activities directed exclusively to Him (prayer) take place. If the synagogue
is used for multi purposes, many affix a mezuzah without a blessing.
A bais medrash- study hall, where, in contrast to a synagogue, one
may eat therein, requires a mezuzah (without a bracha). The front and
rear entrances of a synagogue which has many different rooms for both
religious and secular purposes requires a mezuzah with a blessing.
Interestingly, no room in the Beis HaMikdash had a mezuzah, except
Shaar Nekinor and Lishkas Palhedrin, the room in which the
Kohen Gadol was sequestered a week prior to Yom Kippur.
July 8,
2006 Chukas / Balak
A Baal Koreh
was asked by the gabbaim to please make a hosafa- add an
additional aliyah with the clear understanding that it was to give a
gentleman who usually contributed handsomely to the synagogue. The Baal
Koreh forgot, and thereby caused a financial loss to the synagogue. Does
the Baal Koreh owe the money to the shul? If he is paid, can the
synagogue deduct it from his pay? For sure the synagogue cannot collect the
money, nor deduct the money from his pay- as this is a case of gramma
bnizikin- an indirect form of damage which is patur man to man.
(From our Tuesday morning class- Bava Kamma 56A) Rav Zilberstein shlita
ruled that he is even patur bdenai shamayim, is not even obligated
vis a vis the higher criteria of absolute justice.
July 15,
2006 Pinchas
Our practice is that a kohain who is the chazzan does not
duchan (bless the people). In Israel, where the kohanim bless the
people daily, if the kohain is a mourner, what does he do? Does he
lead the prayers as is customary for a mourner during the week? Or does he
forgo that opportunity to bless the congregation? The Chazon Ish ztl
ruled that he should bless the congregation as that is a Biblical mitzvah,
and forgo the opportunity to lead the prayers. It is interesting to note
that while the Ramah brings in Orach Chaim 128:43 that some communities have
the practice that a kohain does not duchan the entire time of
his aveilus, Rav Shlomo of Vilna ruled that a kohain outside
of Israel should duchan on Yom Tov and Rav Soloveitchik ztl
concurred. Moreover, the Gesher HaChayim brings that some kohanim duchan
in Yerushalayim, even during shiva, but certainly after shiva,
during the week and on Shabbos.
July 22,
2006 Matos / Masei
Wow! Id be honored if you brought Bamidbar (34:19-22) from Parshas Masei to
your Shabbos table. The Torah lists the names of the representatives of each
tribe that would participate in the formal division of the land of Israel.
[Each Nasi (head of the tribe) picked 2 tickets from the drawing
bowl. On one was the name of his tribe and the other its portion in the
land. After he selected his tickets and they were substantiated by the
Urim and Tumim he put his tickets back in the bowl, and
miraculously no Nasi pulled out a different tribes name or
territory.] At first glance, the order of the leaders of the tribes:
Yehudah, Shimon, Binyamin, Dan, Menashe, Efraim, Zvulun, Yissachor, Asher
and Naftali made no sense whatsoever. Not to the generation of Moshe, who
received this prior to their entry, or to us. However, Rav Yaakov Kaminetsky
ztl notes- that only later, after the land was divided- looking from trans
Jordan northward, the Torah is giving the exact way the land would look,
divided by tribes: Yehudah in the southeast, Shimon in the southwest.
Northwest of them was Binyamin, and Dan northeast, and so forth and so on.
The Torah is Divine! Even before the lottery the Torah is giving the
results. As the Torah speaks of secure borders in the parsha; may we be
privileged to enjoy safe borders speedily and permanently in our land.
July 29, 2006
Devarim
When we think of Churban Bais HaMikdash we think of the cessation
of korbonos- and all that the avoda entailed. The Medrash
Aicha (1:25) tells the story that a neighbor of Rabban Gamliel lost her son,
and her cries awakened Rabban Gamliel each night, whereupon he arose and
cried for the Churban. Moreover, the Talmud at the end of Gemorrah Makkos
tells of the prophecy of the Navi Zecharya (8:5) of young children
playing in the streets of Yerushalayim. What do young children have
to do with the Bais HaMikdash? The answer is the Bais HaMikdash
was the source of true peace and tranquility, as represented by the Utopian
state envisioned by Zecharya; while the Churban is attributed by the
Medrash as a factor in the childs passing in Rabban Gamliels neighborhood.
When we pray today sheyibaneh Bais HaMikdash and we fast this
Thursday, we are bemoaning our present war with Hizballah.
August 5,
2006 Vaeschanan
Better Late Than Never:
The mitzvah of Krias Shema can be performed only during the first 3
hours of the day, and is therefore a Mitzvas Asei She Hazman Gerama-
a timebound positive commandment from which a woman is exempt. However,
since the purpose of this mitzvah- Kabbalas Ol Malchus Shamayim-
accepting the sovereignty of Hashem, applies to men and women equally, it
can be fulfilled at any time by women as well. Therefore, if one misses the
specific time for reading the Shema, while they cannot fulfill the
mitzvah of reciting the Shema, they should still recite the
Shema for the following 2 mitzvos:
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reading/ studying of Torah and,
the mitzvah of
Kabbalas Ol Malchus Shamayim.
August 12,
2006 Ekev
The Mishneh Brurah (185:1) cites the Sefer Hachinuch that if one is careful
and deliberate in their recitation of Bircas HaMazon- Grace After
Meals, they will be afforded and assured of their livelihood always. It is
therefore most preferable to recite Bircas HaMazon from a bencher
or siddur. Rav Schach ztl who was often asked for a bracha,
told people to bench from a siddur/ bencher, for commensurate with
the thank you to Hashem for the food, is the channel of blessing from Him to
us. The Mishneh Brurah is a sefer Halacha not Aggadah. Yet, he
brings the Sefer Chassidim that tells of an individual who after he died
appeared in a dream to one of his relatives and bemoaned the fact that daily
he was judged in shamayim for his failure to be careful in his
recitation of brachos. If this is true regarding brachos in general,
remember: One of the only Biblical blessings we recite is Bircas HaMazon.
August 19,
2006 Reeh
Eichah (3:41) Nisah lvaveinu el kapaim is usually translated Let
us lift our hearts with our hands (to G-d in heaven). However, we can also
interpret the above thusly: The heart is an organ that is a giver- it
pumps blood throughout the body. In contrast, the hand is a taker. Note
how the fist of a new-born is clenched at birth. We therefore pray that the
generous characteristic of the heart be transferred to and implemented by
our hand. With this we can appreciate from this weeks parsha (15:10) Noson
titain lo- give and give again- and Vlo yeira lvavecha bsitcha
lo- your heart will not hurt- as you give charity. Be good to your
heart; eat appropriately and give charity.
August 26,
2006 Shoftim
If one mistakenly puts food in their mouth without first reciting a bracha:
A) If he can spit it out without it becoming repugnant,he should do so and
recite the bracha. If not, he should transfer the food to one side of the
mouth and recite the bracha. B) Regarding a liquid: To the Mechaber, he
should swallow, and if he has more of the beverage, he should then recite
the bracha before drinking more. If he has no more, the Mechaber (R'Yosef
Caro) O.C 172 states, he has forfeited the Bracha Rishona. To the Rama, he
should recite the Bracha Rishona immediately after swallowing. The Mishneh
Brurah states that the majority follow the Mechaber- that he has lost the
Bracha Rishona, while Reb Shlomo Zalman Auerbach zt"l sides with the Rama
and says that one can recite the Bracha Rishona after they have drunk.
September
2, 2006 Ki Tetzei
Prika and Teena:
If one sees an animal lying under its load, unable to rise, or if the load
has shifted on the animal, one is obligated to assist the owner in unloading
the animal. (Parshas Mishpatim). If a load has fallen from an animal, one is
obligated to reload it (Parshas Ki Teitze). The Talmud, Bava Metzia (32B)
teaches that if one has the opportunity of doing either or, prika
takes precedence as tzaar baalei chaim, to alleviate the suffering of
the animal, takes precedence. However, if ones friends animal has fallen,
and ones enemys load has dropped, the teena, lifting of ones
enemys load comes first, as the development of ones character takes
precedence over the pain and suffering of the animal. Stopping to help a
motorist along the highway with their disabled vehicle (keeping in mind to
exercise proper safety precautions), is a modern fulfillment of the above.
September
9, 2006 Ki Tavo
While we do not yet have the 3rd Beis HaMikdash to
implement the mitzvos of bringing bikurim- the first fruits
and the thanksgiving recitation that accompanies the bringing of bikurim,
the concept of bikurim/thanksgiving is a cornerstone of our daily
liturgy. The Rambam maintains there is a Biblical mitzvah to pray
daily. Since from the Torah there is no set time for this mitzvah,
women are obligated. Everyone agrees that the text of prayer is Rabbinic,
but the question is what is sufficient to fulfill the Biblical mitzvah?
While just as the Shemonah Esrei has all 3 elements; of shevach-
praise, bakasha- request, and hodayah- thanksgiving, ideally
ones prayer is to contain all three. However, to the Magen Avraham,
hodayah, is sufficient. Therefore, if a woman, who ideally should say
Shemoneh Esrei, but if she cannot, she can satisfy her Biblical
obligation of prayer with Modeh Ani- a statement of thanksgiving.
September
16, 2006 Nitzavim / Veyelech
There is much more to Dip the apple in the honey than a cute kids song.
The tapuach, translated in modern Hebrew as apple, in Biblical
texts, ie: Shir HaShirim, refers to a citrus fruit; it reminds us of
Gan Eden. Thus, in accordance with Kaballah we are not only asking of
Hashem to sweeten and temper our judgement, but we are being reminded of the
awesomeness of the day of Rosh Hashanah, as not only are the living judged,
but the deceased are judged as well.
September
23, 2006 - Rosh Hashanah
Tashlich:
this year recited on 2nd day Rosh Hashanah until Hoshanah Rabbah.
We recite it at a flowing body of water as
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kings were coronated at a flowing body of water to demonstrate and pray that
their reign should endure, and on Rosh Hashanah we coronate Hashem, and
we recall how the Satan tried to dissuade Avraham from going to the
Akeidah by placing a flowing river before him. While there is a
minhag based on Kabbalah to shake out ones pockets at the time of
Tashlich, ridding oneself of negative klippos/characteristics
that might have attached themselves to our being, there is a minhag
of feeding the fish and throwing crumbs; this is to be discouraged and
discontinued. The halacha permits and obligates one to feed on
Shabbos an Yom Tov those animals that rely upon man for their sustenance all
year long, but those that do not may not be fed on Shabbos and Yom Tov.
September
30, 2006 - Ha'azinu
The last Mishnah in Yoma teaches that Yom Kippur atones for sins man to
Hashem, but sins man to man Yom Kippur does not atone till he appeases, asks
forgiveness and restores the relationship with his fellow man. The Shulchan
Aruch (OC 606) rules in accordance with this Mishnah. The Rav ztl explained
the rationale as the atonement of Yom Kippur comes as a communal one (Kaporas
HaTzibur).
Proof: The Sair HaMishtaleiach, the goat that was sent into the
wilderness which atoned for all Israel, was a communal offering,
commensurate with the degree of unity, friendship, love and concern among
us. Like saying Gut Shabbos and Mishloach Manot, asking
mechila is not only primarily to your friends but to those with whom you
are not yet friendly.
October 7,
2006 - Sukkos
The sukkah must be directly under the sky: Foliage (regardless how
high above the sukkah), if they provide more shade than sun to the
area where the sukkah will stand, renders the sukkah invalid.
The Shulchan Orech (Choshen Mishpat 155:26) rules that if a neighbors tree
extends over your property, you may cut off the part over your property
(even without the owners permission). Thus, you may cut the branches of
your neighbors tree over your property, and need not listen to the
neighbors recommendation or suggestion that you put your sukkah
elsewhere. Who pays for the cutting and removing of the branches? Much to
your surprise! Not the owner of the tree! The reason being that at
the time of the action (planting the tree) no damage was done; it (damage)
developed over time. It is then up to the person being damaged to distance
themself. The planter is now damaging indirectly- gramma bnizikin
and from the letter of the law is patur- exempt from payment. (If,
however, at the time of planting it was obvious that a problem would ensue,
many rule that the neighbor (planter) would have to pay.)
October 14,
2006 Shmini Atzeres
We begin the recitation of mashiv haruach umorid hageshem with
Mussaf of Shemini Atzeres. We dont begin at Maariv, as not everyone is
present and we want the community to begin at the same time. We dont start
at Shacharis as we do not begin the mashiv haruach until it is
announced prior to the Shemonah Esrei, and at Shacharis we cannot
make the announcement. Thus, prior to Mussaf the announcement is made and we
begin the recitation. This inclusion is so important that if one forgot to
include mashiv haruach if they already began the 3rd
bracha, (Ata Kodesh) or after, they must go back to the beginning of
the Shemoneh Esrei. If they remember after having completed the
Shemoneh Esrei, they must repeat the Shemoneh Esrei.
October 21,
2006 - Bereishis
There is a fascinating custom among the darshanim to connect the end
of the Torah and the beginning. The Chassam Sofer ztl did so in the
following way: The Torah ends with the words leinei kol Yisroel
referring, as Rashi explains, to Moshe breaking the luchos in front
of the entire nation. Why after the sin of the Golden Calf does he break the
tablets? Let him give them to the tribe of Levi who did not worship the
egel. The answer is, Moshe wanted the Torah for all Israel, not just one
part. Similarly, the 1st passuk of Braishis with
Rashi (1:14) teaches that everything- all of creation- was created on Day 1-
it was just implemented and began functioning on different days. Here too,
Hashem created all together. The Torah begins and ends with the theme of
unity.
October
28, 2006 - Noah
Know why you do what you do! Does one inspect ones fingernails before the
blessing of Borei Morei HaAish or afterwards? It depends what is
the nature of the bracha: If it is a blessing of shevach and
hodaya- praise and thanksgiving to Hashem for the use of fire, then
first one has to encounter the act and then recite the bracha.
Examples are thunder, lightning and Asher Yatzar. If, however, it
is a Birkas Nhenin- blessing recited prior to getting benefit as
before eating and smelling, then the bracha is recited first. The
Mishneh Brurah held it is the former, Rav Moshe Feinstein, ztl felt it was
the latter.
November
4, 2006 - Lech Lechah
The bracha of Shehecheyanu is recited in conjunction with a
mitzvah that one performs infrequently. Thus the Rambam rules that the
bracha of Shehecheyanu is to be recited by the father of the baby
following the bris. This is the prevalent Sfard custom. Ashkenazic
practice is not to recite the < |